1) stay with him uncommitted. Men are taught to go after the girl. We have a great time together we get along well. However, I've transcribed them so we can read them over and over again to make them stick in our memory much easier. The reason you don't know what he wants is because likely he also doesn't know what he wants. • If you don't get any more of his pre-allocated investment in a woman — time, energy, financial. A man is going to make it crystal clear that he wants you. the length of the relationship only really starts counting after "marrying age" aka 22ish+; being unmarried to ur boyfriend of 8 years at 24 is a totally different beast than not being married to your boyfriend of 8 years at 34.) Read the FDS Handbook to learn more about our philosophy. And a liar. https://www.uniqorner.com/blog---en/when-a-man-doesnt-know-what-he-wants Picture the most beautiful woman you can imagine. When a guy really wants anything, he makes it crystal clear. And you don’t need more than a few days or one week at the outside. It’s not about a good or a bad guy. Now imagine if your FWB/boyfriend/misbehaving moid would treat her the way he'd treat you. It warmed my heart to know I was finally good enough. We spend all this time, we go on dates, we talk everyday, I mean come on… BUT…” That’s when you know he doesn’t really want you. Need help with your relationship? On that same night we slept together he asked me all kinds of questions threw out the night. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. If he doesn’t leave, you’re giving him something he wants. He Doesn’t Want To Call You His Girlfriend. Also, this is all largely based on whether you've slept with him. He won't change. You’ll never get to experience being with someone that does want you and will treat you so much better than you ever imagined. If he doesn’t leave, you’re giving him something he wants. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. If he can only spend $x on a date but nothing more. The only dating subreddit exclusively for women! You’re only good for as long as you are serving THEIR purposes. Do you think he'd wait two days to text Emily Didonato back? My ex husband acted like it was a chore to talk to me and only had negative nasty things to say to me. Met this guy a little more than a month ago, our mutual friend introduced us, we clicked and made out the second day of meeting. We got a pitcher but the bar apparently didn't accept cards so I paid since I had cash. My boyfriend pays for pretty much everything (he would pay for everything if I let him). Don’t stay with someone that shows you they don’t want to be with you. yes it is ironically the shit men (especially the uglier dusties that STILL cheat) that turn women into high maintenance bitches. I know that he is a very emotionall and nice guy who treats other people very good. If his answers are brief, it’s not because he hates texting and would rather just see you in person, it’s because he’s annoyed by you and doesn’t want you to text him anymore. 9. The slightest hint at having to communicate maturely or alter their precious lives for the love of a woman sends them into a tailspin. On the contrary, the guy went silent because to him it was a strategy to let you know that he wants you to chase him. A guy who doesn’t know what he wants is probably scared of commitment. He is scared of commitment. There are men out there who are tall, cute, highly paid who will treat you well. That's why even the most unwashed neckbeard still messages Belle Delphine asking for freebies or a hookup. I don’t want to be your boyfriend. So you have two choices. The third one is so true. That you're supposed to give him the benefits of a relationship without being in a relationship. If you do walk away, he might decide he DOES want to be with you. He also wants to know what her romantic history is like. This one is pretty obvious. When a guy doesn’t know what he wants, it may be a sign he is simply not ready for anything serious. she gives him an ultimatum and sometimes he does propose and it almost always collapses. The tables have turned or whatever where about once a year since he seems to fuck up another relationship and text me out of desperation just to be ignored, but I’m not fooled that he was thinking of me the entire time or anything, he is clearly texting multiple women he had dated before trying to swing into a rebound. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, More posts from the FemaleDatingStrategy community, Continue browsing in r/FemaleDatingStrategy. you see this all the time with the poor women who are in a relationship with a guy for 7, sometimes 10 years and he never proposes. For example, if he responds with, “Of course I like you. He says he loves you and doesn’t want to lose you – and that’s probably ALL TRUE. Which is why Arianna grande wrote Thankyou Next. You’re cool as long as you’re a convenience. I asked him to go on a spontaneous trip to another city and he didn't even hesitate and paid for the Airbnb. They will push through their shyness, inexperience, shitty romantic experiences, just to ask you out. ATTENTION, LADIES: THIS GUY IS A F*CKBOY. Though they want to be around you and they like you, they’re scared of starting a relationship with you. Some guys don’t want a long term relationship. It’s a scary concept because if you’re impatient you could lose a guy who might be “the one,” but if you’re too patient you could lose years of your life with someone who might be everything you’ve ever wanted, but he doesn’t want you back. or "ask him out" but usually they mean Margot Robbie should message him first or ask him out. Just remember that a guy asking you out to coffee means something casual but could be a stepping stone. He makes sure to spend time with me every single day even if it’s only a few minutes in passing. 11. He may ask you a couple questions and let you talk, but if he keeps coming back to how hot you look right now, it should be obvious that hooking up is all he wants. He doesn't. He’s almost offended by the fact that you would even ask him whether or not he actually wants you. He had a plan: you were either going to be his woman for now or he … He never lets me go to bed without telling me goodnight and kissing me. Even before we started dating, he took me to drinks one time at a bar. He just wants to have you around. With Overwatch dude, I had to force every single conversation. However, if it’s been a lot longer than that and he is still telling you he doesn’t know what he wants…then it might be time to consider option 3. For personal questions, ask it on r/AskFDS. 2. What are your intentions with me?” If you ask him these questions, and what proceeds after the first part of his answer is the word BUT, that man doesn’t want you, he only wants to have you around. Nothing will stop a truly interested man from moving the relationship forward. They are so selfish that if you disturb their lives in the slightest negative way, they’ll see red flags and ditch you (remember - we’re all “crazy”) - meanwhile, don’t feel bad because the chances are very high that they will forever be alone. My husband is one of those diamonds in the rough. He said he doesn’t like texting he rather talk face to face. Always tells me he loves me, loves to cuddle, etc. When he says he doesn’t know what he wants, he is actually telling you he knows what he doesn’t want.What he doesn’t want is the relationship you want. He doesn’t expect her to love these things as much as he does, but he still wants to share his passions. Guys want to avoid labels when they’re not that into a relationship and want to keep the status quo. You must understand the human mind. What his intentions were with you. If he does, then this is guy code for "you have passed the coffee test." You are a fabulous woman who deserves exactly what she wants in a man, and who deserves a man who isn't afraid of commitment! I know that as well.. Don't feed his ego, or you will end up being so hurtful later. He is scared of commitment. Just because he didn’t want a relationship doesn’t mean ignoring him won’t work. But, if he won’t commit, he’s saying loud and clear that he doesn’t want a committed relationship. Please DOWNVOTE and REPORT immediately. We discuss how to maintain a healthy relationship that benefits you. But then he tells me that I have a choice and can leave or wait for him. He needs to fix his own issue first. 11. Follow FDS on social media and join the official website at thefemaledatingstrategy.com for more FDS content beyond Reddit. He doesn’t really want you. “The moment you become an inconvenience you’re out of there” - be especially aware of this one! In the same way that you knew how much you wanted this guy from date one, he knew what he wanted with you immediately after meeting you. It could be anything. Yes, people are allowed to have their own standards. Maybe he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. Women should stop settling, thinking that they can't find the man of their dreams because he's out there, but you won't meet him if you're too busy obsessing over a loser! But before I knew it, I was playing a dating game of hot potato. The moment you say, “This is how I do things and this is what I need…” and he starts getting a little distant, he starts pulling away, if it’s his rules or no rules at all, he just wants to have you around. If literally all he does is make fun of you, you might be right in that he doesn't like you. You will swim across the ocean to make this guy happy, but he won't even step over a puddle for you, that's where the problem is. A guy who doesn’t know what he wants is probably scared of commitment. If a man treats you any less and you've already been seeing him for a month or two months max, cut him off because he will never treat you like his dream girl if he doesn't already treat you like that in the early stages of dating. you should be the centre of his world. Edit: and ik people are gonna say things like "it's so hard to find someone THAT enthusiastic" but i'm legitimately not joking - it is better to be single than date someone who isn't insanely into you. When a guy is leading you on, he only cares about himself. He now wants to have a divorce and never wants to see his wife ever again. Go to the gym, do things you like, keep your mind busy and hear the words of wisdom here. When he’s leading you on, he does what’s of his best interest. Either he wants to commit or he doesn’t. 3) You’re definitely going to be an exception for him somewhere, somehow, in his life. I went from "dating" a deadbeat stoner who played Overwatch all day but couldn't find time to text me more than twice a week to being in a relationship with an intelligent, compassionate, attractive, tall (sorry, manlets, i'm thin so u can't even "hurr durr what u weigh" this one), athletic man who spoils me all the time and is in a field that makes $$$$$$. It’s his rule or the highway in terms of how you guys engage with each other. the guy who broke my heart doesn’t know he did it, and still wants to be friends. Press J to jump to the feed. He never lets me lift a single finger to the point where I feel kind of bad. Men have no shame whatsoever if they find a woman that they really like. He says he doesn't know if he wants a relationship. If he doesn’t want to call you his girlfriend or put labels on the relationship, it’s a pretty big sign he’s not that serious. After a few weeks, I noticed him drifting from me and confronted him. He knew my family. ._2YJDRz5rCYQfu8YdgB_neb{overflow:hidden;position:relative}._2YJDRz5rCYQfu8YdgB_neb:before{background-image:url(https://www.redditstatic.com/desktop2x/img/reddit_pattern.png);content:"";filter:var(--newCommunityTheme-invertFilter);height:100%;position:absolute;width:100%}._37WD6iicVS6vGN0RomNTwh{padding:0 12px 12px;position:relative} Approaching him first or pushing for a relationship won't make him into you - in fact, it'll probably make him respect you less and treat you worse because he thinks he can take you for granted. Thats why it hurt him especially bad that his wife of 5 years cheated on him. If he can't shell out 50 bucks for a date (or a measly two bucks for coffee), the guy's a man-child. That can boost his ego. the guy who broke my heart doesn’t know he did it, and still wants to be friends. ._2JU2WQDzn5pAlpxqChbxr7{height:16px;margin-right:8px;width:16px}._3E45je-29yDjfFqFcLCXyH{margin-top:16px}._13YtS_rCnVZG1ns2xaCalg{font-family:Noto Sans,Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;font-weight:400;line-height:18px;display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex}._1m5fPZN4q3vKVg9SgU43u2{margin-top:12px}._17A-IdW3j1_fI_pN-8tMV-{display:inline-block;margin-bottom:8px;margin-right:5px}._5MIPBF8A9vXwwXFumpGqY{border-radius:20px;font-size:12px;font-weight:500;letter-spacing:0;line-height:16px;padding:3px 10px;text-transform:none}._5MIPBF8A9vXwwXFumpGqY:focus{outline:unset} If he can only spend time with you from x o'clock to x o'clock ever. When a guy likes a girl, he wants her to like the things that he likes. They exist! (n.b. Do you think he'd have the audacity to make Rihanna pay for her own dinner? Some guys don’t want a long term relationship. But ask a man who doesn’t really want you like that. He then tried to VENMO me the cost of the pitcher because he didn't like the fact that I was paying (it would have been less than $15 including tax and tip). Despite what they may say, guys don't really believe that any girl is out of their league. It's his role to persuade you to take a chance on him and let him into your life. • If you straight up ask him, “Where do we stand? This is the only way you can find out what you want to know – by waiting and doing nothing. I've said to him that I want a serious relationship but he keeps saying he doesn't know. The moral of the story here is, if a guy wants you 1) it’s going to be crystal clear with no question whatsoever. Reminder that this sub is FEMALE ONLY. If he’s a high-quality guy, it’s worth the wait. He knows what he wants by now — don’t believe otherwise. He only has Friday open for you ever. Press J to jump to the feed. Everybody has a right to do that, the problem is, if you're a woman that would do anything for this guy, he’s a high priority, you're starting to catch feelings, etc. Yes!! He never once made me wonder how he felt. Fuck, I literally asked him to eat a napkin to prove his love and this fucking mad lad started chewing (albeit after some convincing lmao); I actually felt bad for this one because I didn't think he'd do it. If you are his dream girl, he would treat you the way he would treat a VS model or a Hollywood star. And I probably should just move on before things get serious for me and I get hurt. It's also important for women to uphold the "Would he treat x (a famous model or celebrity) this way?" Relationship Advice For Women: He Doesn't Know What He Wants What I'm getting, is that he has too many problems and doesn't want to feel alone, and wants to have this hope that oh, he still has this girl waiting for him if he gets "in the mood". You're just on two completely different pages and you're about to get hurt. If he doesn’t connect – he’s not interested. But for those that never been in those situations; That made the same mistakes... they will listen, agree and do all the same we repeatedly say not to, over and over again until one day they get fed up of being played of and decide to change into the the bi****They created us. /*# sourceMappingURL=https://www.redditstatic.com/desktop2x/chunkCSS/TopicLinksContainer.361933014be843c79476.css.map*/._2ppRhKEnnVueVHY_G-Ursy{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;margin:22px 0 0;min-height:200px;overflow:hidden;position:relative}._2KLA5wMaJBHg0K2z1q0ci_{margin:0 -7px -8px}._1zdLtEEpuWI_Pnujn1lMF2{bottom:0;position:absolute;right:52px}._3s18OZ_KPHs2Ei416c7Q1l{margin:0 0 22px;position:relative}.LJjFa8EhquYX8xsTnb9n-{filter:grayscale(40%);position:absolute;top:11px}._2Zjw1QfT_iMHH7rfaGsfBs{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;background:linear-gradient(180deg,rgba(0,121,211,.24),rgba(0,121,211,.12));border-radius:50%;display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;height:25px;-ms-flex-pack:center;justify-content:center;margin:0 auto;width:25px}._2gaJVJ6_j7vwKV945EABN9{background-color:var(--newCommunityTheme-button);border-radius:50%;height:15px;width:15px;z-index:1} Hollywood movies are full of beautiful 20 something women finding "true love" with a slobby man at least half a decade his junior. If he's not approaching you, or if he's barely making any effort, he's just not that into you. A guy who’s genuinely in love with you will be someone who you know well, too. You probably don’t have a problem with a guy complimenting your appearance, but if he can’t say anything that doesn’t involve trying to flatter you based on your looks, he has ulterior motives. vs. For this guy, it means he wants all the fun parts of a relationship, without the hard parts. 3. 2) Leave him and look for the love you want and deserve. Is he interested? You don’t need to deal with a guy’s issues when you have your crap figured out. If you don't feel that certainty and excitement from him, he's simply not that into you and you're wasting your time on him. Some were about if I still have a relationship with my child’s father and does my child’s father still want to hookup. 99/100 men aren't "too shy" or "too intimidated" to approach a woman they're attracted to. Thank you, Yeah I think it is better for you to move on as soon as possible. I know that he cried a lot and distanced himself from his wife. That's why it's vital to recognize the signs a guy likes you before you act. If you know that you want someone in your life completely and with a real title on your relationship, don’t feel guilty for walking away from guys who haven’t figured out what they want yet. What are we doing? There are multiple reasons that this could have happened to them, but commitment-phobes hardly ever know what they want.. Or maybe he doesn’t think you can handle his honesty. It could be anything. 2) You’re going to be able to make your own rules regarding what you’re comfortable with and how you roll. If he doesn’t want to call you his girlfriend or put labels on the relationship, it’s a pretty big sign he’s not that serious. [new] i (25m) met a friend (26m) through friends online about a year ago. Anyone who says they’ve got the trick is simply telling tall tales. Holy... thank you. If he doesn’t know he wants you all the way, he’s not worth your time. It Can Be Hard To Know When A Guy May Be Saying One Thing But Meaning Another. Whatever the case, his unwillingness to spend time with you says a lot. I want to be your boyfriend. If he's a f*ckboy or just someone who's just too nervous to hang out with you. So if you don’t want anything serious, I think we should leave things for now until you know for sure before we get in any deeper.” In other words, be the one who lets it go. Guys want to avoid labels when they’re not that into a relationship and want to keep the status quo. If he doesn’t know he wants you all the way, he’s not worth your time. They’re 100 true, women here know what they are talking about. He texts and calls me first. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. Sounds like he doesn’t. It's best to have an abundance mindset. Lazy men love spouting nonsense about "message him first!" He still wants access to your assets. Women really don't have to worry about chasing after men or getting a man interested in them. Word @ only having Friday open being a red flag. It’s so true. You're just wasting your time on him. But, if he won’t commit, he’s saying loud and clear that he doesn’t want a committed relationship. I have the best life now. Why It’s So Confusing When He Says He Doesn’t Want to Lose You but Doesn’t Want to Commit. So if you’ve got an XY, don’t reply. But the moment you become an inconvenience, you’re out of there. Men often pull this stunt and use this line when it is time for a relationship to go to the next level, or for one to start. Would he cancel on Alicia Vikander to smoke up with his bros? When we disagree he actually hears me out and takes my opinion into consideration instead of calling me names like my ex did. The clearer he is about what he wants, the clearer his relationship decisions will be. But then when I tell him that we should stop then because we're wasting each other's time, he seems conflicted and tells me that he wants to meet my parents and that I could come to Holland with him and all that stuff and I'm just like ... why would we do this if we're not serious. But i had to stop wasting time with all the garbage to be available for him. Any thoughts on this situation? If you don’t get the feeling he respects you, it's one of the signs a guy just wants sex and you really shouldn’t agree to see him anymore. You don’t want to rush him, but you don’t want to waste your time, either. However he comes to my house almost every weekend and we talk everyday. If it’s not crystal clear already, he’s gonna make sure he fixes that ASAP with no questions asked and no BUT answers. However, his uncertainty could also be a sign of deeper issues and problems that he is not facing. All they have to focus on is becoming their best self and attracting the right man. This one is pretty obvious. 11. Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help! You’ll know he has a thing for anime, or Game of Thrones, or sushi. No one likes being shut down. Show me a guy who isn’t selfish AF - starting to think they don’t even exist. If he doesn’t respond to your texts for hours, it’s not because he didn’t have his phone nearby, it’s because he doesn’t think you’re important. All comments from men will be removed and you will be banned. He wants to show her his favorite things – favorite movies, books, activities, and hobbies. He wants to let her into his world. Though they want to be around you and they like you, they’re scared of starting a relationship with you. A good man is intentional and doesn't play games, and doesn't want to lose you when he finds you. But ask a man who doesn’t really want you like that. I am a stay at home mom, he works hard for us all day, comes home and cooks us dinner, cleans up and gives me a foot massage. Where is this whole thing headed? He Means: "I Have No Idea What I'm Talking About But Just Don't Go Crazy With The Makeup." Validation and what he gets from you. If you figure out you’re on different pages, you might leave him, and that’s a risk he’s avoiding. He doesn’t want you to know that you’re not on the same page. I assured him that i don’t speak to my child’s father. If he texts but doesn’t set up a date, he’s not interested ENOUGH. When a man knows you are willing to let him go if he doesn’t make a decision, you will find out much faster what he really wants deep down. However, if he does not re-engage after pulling away, then maybe he’s just not that into you. If you want commitment and he doesn’t, you have different goals for the relationship. 7 He Says: "I Like A Girl Who Doesn't Wear Any Makeup." But if you do get some real, genuine moments of kindness from him, you can rest assured HE LIKES YOU. If the guy you're dating shows some of these signs he will never commit, it's time for you to cut bait and move on. He literally is a unicorn. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. He will see your value and will treat you accordingly. How do you feel about me? We focus on effective dating strategies for women who want to take control of their dating lives. I definitely agree with these tips. What I'm getting, is that he has too many problems and doesn't want to feel alone, and wants to have this hope that oh, he still has this girl waiting for him if he gets "in the mood". Then we kind of went back a couple of steps and started getting to know e/o and hang out. When a guy really wants anything, he makes it crystal clear. Or, maybe he doesn’t want one with you. Read this post to identify what to avoid when dating a commitmentphobe. My life got better and the quality of men I dated improved so much when I started following this philosophy. You can find another man who will treat you like the queen that you are. But if there's no compromise and if you're not an exception to any rule whatsoever, guess what? He brings me flowers at work. If a man isn't crazy about you right from the get go and he's lukewarm about you, what's even the point? He Doesn’t Want To Call You His Girlfriend. If he notices that you did not get the hint, he will re-engage again and this will be a surefire sign that he wants you to chase him. He proposed to me after 2 months. Watch him start his answer with something that affirms it before he figures out what he’s gonna say after that magic word BUT. It's best to simply play the numbers game by dropping a man who's lukewarm about you and then investing your time and effort on prospecting for other candidates. Especially since you’re more mature than him in many ways at this stage in life. [new] ... Posted by just now. The men who were absolutely in love with me did the opposite of these three things: they let me make my own rules, they made an exception for me in a lot of things, and they make it crystal clear that they want me. Maybe it’s because he’s incapable of liking someone past a certain point (a point that would lead to a relationship), or maybe he just doesn’t see himself with someone like you for reasons beyond your control. 9. Even if you are ready to commit after 3 weeks, it might take him 3 months. But then he tells me that I have a choice and can leave or wait for him. I don't know what he wants!" Here are the three indicators that a man doesn’t want you: • If he doesn’t allow you to make any rules whatsoever. I’m totally stealing this mindset. After we left the first bar, we went to my favourite cheap dive bar. That's the kind of treatment that you should expect from the man you're dating. Finally, we both hit our wits end with each other, he couldn’t reciprocate an “I love you” and I was frustrated. You don’t need to deal with a guy’s issues when you have your crap figured out. /*# sourceMappingURL=https://www.redditstatic.com/desktop2x/chunkCSS/ReredditLink.f7b66a91705891e84a09.css.map*/Fucking excellent comment . Always takes care of me first in the bedroom. I don't know what kind of guy this guy is. (n.b.2 marriage is a scam for women, stay woke). Option #3: It’s over. A guy can take you for granted because you’re overly available and always willing to have sex with him. When my boyfriend asked me to be official, he told me about how long he'd been wanting to date me. The following tips are from this video. the beginning of a relationship period is supposed to be the fucking honeymoon, before any responsibility or bills or family drama or kids come in. He doesn’t care about your feelings or well-being. He said that he got afraid that things might go bad because everything between us was so good, and that he also needs time, because right now he doesn't feel much and that he "has problems in his head", his words. The nature of men /women. He hasn’t been very available lately, even when he… he then goes on to marry the next woman he dates within months or <2 years. He’s almost offended by the fact that you would even ask him whether or not he actually wants you. The relationship most prior to my current one the guy only had specifically one day of the week free and it was only for a few hours that day, and I was supposed to believe he was super busy. HE DOES NOT. I'm seeing a guy about 5 months. or if he does marry the woman who waited for 7 years, you'll be his maid and sex slave while he complains that you gained weight from having his kids and aren't a carefree/fun/spontaneous 22 year old anymore. 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